Life Lessons: Respecting Hard Work
Yesterday an article by Ruben Navarrette regarding “hard work” reminded me of an important lesson I learned long ago. Please read it – it’s wonderful. It’s a lesson that keeps me grounded in what has already been a fortunate life and career.
I started working when I was about seven. Now before you go and contact someone regarding child labor laws, keep in mind this was back in the late 1960’s, and I was working at my elementary school. At the time, I attended a small Catholic school in Los Angeles along with four other siblings. With three more sisters at a Catholic high school, paying tuition for all of us was always a challenge for my parents. When meeting monthly tuition bills was difficult, the nuns managing the school would come up with creative ways to “balance the books.”
In some instances, it meant my older brother and I would come in early on Saturday mornings to do some school cleaning: washing blackboards, dusting erasers, vacuuming rooms, and mopping hallways. My brother and I had a wonderful time doing it. Not only did we get to run in the hallways (always forbidden), listen to rock music, and invade the cafeteria’s food bank, we took a lot of pride in knowing that we were somehow contributing towards our education. Although we never revealed what we did to other kids in the school, we earned the respect of our teachers because of our work.
Years later as a sophomore in high school, a friend told me that a factory up the street was looking for a couple of students to do some part-time work. Again, mostly maintenance work including scrubbing down the factory floor bathrooms (yes, not fun). Some of the money went in my pocket, some towards paying for high school and the rest for gas money (I had a cool 1964 Ford Ranchero- a classic!).
I never felt embarrassed or regretful in taking on these jobs. I didn’t “miss out” on a regular childhood either. In fact, these jobs and others growing up probably kept me out of trouble as a teenager – thankfully. The experiences instilled a strong work ethic. Resilience. Self-respect.
Most important, it implanted in me the belief that anyone doing an honest days work, no matter what it is, deserves my respect.
As the authors of Made to Stick note, change that’s unexpected usually alters the way things get done. But this is rare. Not all lasting change is driven on this time scale. Issues like the environment, for example, work on a much different timeline. Our environmental problems can be solved but require decades to see the solutions or even progress. The same can be said about issues like immigration, education, and diversity. Many organizations or institutions are unable to grasp the idea of addressing these challenges simply because they’re not able to function within a different time scale.
Earlier today, I had a chance to watch the Ronald McDonald House Charities’ (RMHC)/HACER college scholarship recipient webcast. The RMHC/HACER partnership awards $100,000 to fulfill the college dreams of Hispanic college students. This year marks 25th Anniversary of the RMHC/HACER Scholarship Program.
Despite numerous barriers, at times posed by some in their own family, these scholarship recipients shared how they overcame challenges by believing in themselves and with the support of their colleges and mentors; a critical aspect of successful Hispanic college students. The program did an excellent job of having recipients share their experiences in getting ready for college: SATs, admissions, scholarships, and developing relationships. If the recorded webcast is available, I’ll upload the link. Truly worth watching.
Growing up as a kid in East L.A., I had a lot of dreams. One was wanting to join the Boy Scouts. I remember spending hours browsing through a Scout manual I’d found one day on the street. I would imagine camping in the mountains, building a fire by rubbing sticks together, and eating the fish I’d caught from a roaring river. I’d use first aid tricks to mend someone’s twisted ankle with a brace I’d make from tree branches and a shoelace. Yes, I was a ready to be a Boy Scout!
Today, I had the opportunity to attend the “The War for Talent in the Workplace: The Next 24 Months!” webcast sponsored by the